I go by the name of Wesseling Aisyah( for short)
17 turning on 18
Mix of dutch and malay and more
24 June 1990
Self employed writer :D

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Sometimes its hard to be a child of a divorced family. Both parents want to spend as much time with their children as possible, but it has to be fair. If one does not get his/her equal share of child time, arguments could break out. Now that its the holidays, i can spend time with my dad and mom. But the thing is my mom is all alone at home and she often calls to ask me to go out, but i quite often turn her down and i feel extrememly guilty about it. Its just that the weekdays are for my dad and weekends for my mom. Also, the past one month and more i have been with my mom on holiday, so my dad did not get to see me for quite a period. Now that i am back, i want to make up for the time lost, but my mom also wants to spend time with me, but i cannot help but feel that its not fair to dad. So i turn her down.

Its frustrating making the decisions knowing how the other party might feel. Its confusing, frustrating, straining and sometimes i just cannot handle it. The pressure of making choices and knowing the consequences following the decision just keeps building up and up. Am i in the wrong for wanting to spend time with my dad??

I am in unchartered waters here.
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